Respecting others

When you are making decision for someone, and other people are involved..you actually should consult those involved parties..this is common sense and as a way you are showing that you respect them. 

Sometimes, you already know what should be done or what to choose..but it's always a good manner to consult the other, not that you'll listen to their advice but just in a formal way of informing them.

Where, in Islam we have the musyawarah concept;

based on definition by http://ukhtipeni.multiply.com

Musyawarah artinya membicarakan suatu masalah bersama-sama untuk mendapatkan kesepakatan. Berbagai hal yang menyangkut kepentingan orang banyak dapat dimusyawarahkan misalnya pemilihan ketua kelas, tujuan bertamasya, rencana membangun jalan, dan lain-lain.

based on definition by http://www.artikata.com

1. pembahasan bersama dng maksud mencapai keputusan atas penyelesaian masalah; perundingan; perembukan 
ber·mu·sya·wa·rah v berunding; berembuk: semua pihak bersedia -; me·mu·sya·wa·rah·kan v merundingkan; memufakatkan: kita - persoalan itu kembali supaya tidak lagi terjadi pertentangan

okay, that's all. i'm just saying ;)

plus...everyone is entitled to their own opinion 

(credit to Bleach)

kau ade facebook???

Sapa ade akaun facebook???.. angkat tangan

if the question were to be asked to the general public, surely people of all ages...including school children..teachers...grandma n even grandpa also have it.. betul lah

compared to my time, young adults nowadays are more exposed to the digital world and less to the real world.

They damage their eyes for hours spent in front of the telly @ pc @ notebook @ netbook @ tablet pc
They sweat less... preserve more calories and fat inside them
They surf the net freely... causing moral damage for being exposed to free immoral content of the net...expose themselves to pedophiles...uses foul languages...uses very irritating acronyms to words...etc...etc..etc
They actively update their status on facebook which make it similar to their diary...owh man... among all of the very bad side being all expose to the net...this is the worse..especially status like these...

"today i cut my hair..then go to eat tutty frutti ice cream" --- > lame..who care??

"i accidentally step on the ants...owhh how sinful" --- > plastic nyeeeee

"sooo happy someone cared about me..since i'm single...no calon lah..i'm lonely..bla..bla..bla" --- > okay this is just pathetic...get a life okay

To those who did the above..ever heard of the word PRIVACY
Go get yourself a decent friend...someone who actually care..okay bye