When you are making decision for someone, and other people are involved..you actually should consult those involved parties..this is common sense and as a way you are showing that you respect them.
Sometimes, you already know what should be done or what to choose..but it's always a good manner to consult the other, not that you'll listen to their advice but just in a formal way of informing them.
Where, in Islam we have the musyawarah concept;
based on definition by http://ukhtipeni.multiply.com
Musyawarah artinya membicarakan suatu masalah bersama-sama untuk mendapatkan kesepakatan. Berbagai hal yang menyangkut kepentingan orang banyak dapat dimusyawarahkan misalnya pemilihan ketua kelas, tujuan bertamasya, rencana membangun jalan, dan lain-lain.
based on definition by http://www.artikata.com
1. pembahasan bersama dng maksud mencapai keputusan atas penyelesaian masalah; perundingan; perembukan
ber·mu·sya·wa·rah v berunding; berembuk: semua pihak bersedia -; me·mu·sya·wa·rah·kan v merundingkan; memufakatkan: kita - persoalan itu kembali supaya tidak lagi terjadi pertentangan
ber·mu·sya·wa·rah v berunding; berembuk: semua pihak bersedia -; me·mu·sya·wa·rah·kan v merundingkan; memufakatkan: kita - persoalan itu kembali supaya tidak lagi terjadi pertentangan
okay, that's all. i'm just saying ;)
plus...everyone is entitled to their own opinion
(credit to Bleach)
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